C-Bart, Great news!!!! I actually read this yesterday and was about to respond when Kemper showed up. I shared your great news with him, he is taking a break from the boards for a bit. We are both excited for you. We hit the local bar and did some GALing.
I think you are smart about going in with low expectations. I think if you and your wife go in with an open mind the experience will be positive for both of you.
Is it next weekend?
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
Thanks MHL. I can understand taking a break from the boards. Had to do that myself for about 3-4 months. There are so many situation here they tend to make my head spin. That especially the case in newcomers.
As for an open mind, I'm all about that. Not sure about Mrs. Bart but at least she will be there. My job is to get us to the hotel. What ever happens from that point on is not in my hands.
Yes Retro is next weekend.
OP, That's exactly what I'm going to do is repeat that line.
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Not good. I will post more later. Retro is a great program but it takes two people who are open, willing and healthy enough to attend. Otherwise the resulting pain is almost unbearable.
Thanks to everyone for you heart felt thoughts and prayers. They are what kept me going.
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C-Bart, I am sorry that it did not go the way you wanted it to go. I hope there is something that you could take away that was positive for you. I will look for your post. I hope your day goes well. Hang in there.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.