He said he is done!!

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The kids and I went to the event - everything was going well - H and I even had some casual conversion. We share many of the same really good friends so it was good to see them too.

Then it went down hill - but I did a 180. He was talking with some of the folks. He starting laughing and joking about having a house - how he needed a room mate!! In front of our children.

Typically when things upset me like this did I would blow. I calmly walked away. My S19 saw me and he was upset as well. At that point about all conversion between me and H stopped and D13/D16 and I left. S19 stayed - I have a feeling that he is going to speaking with his father and let him know how that made him feel. My son is VERY protective of me.

I am one of those mom's (sure that there are many of you here) that when someone/anyone does anything to hurt their children turn into the wild lioness. I will be bringing this up with him - last night was just not the right place.

As for another woman - I still do not believe that there is one - but I will do some checking. How do I do this ? When all this came out he admitted that he was wrong and told me that he had told her that he could no longer speak to her and all communication stopped. Maybe I am in denial. Maybe I just want to believe him when he says nothing it was nothing physical - but he is still talking with her - the emotional affair will hurt even MORE than a physical one!