You keep that inheritance money for emergency purposes for you and the kids hun you need to have a back up plan at least. If you can do the over time do, thats what I have been doing although that is hard as I already work a forty hour week.
Hope he sorts the bills out sensibly with you (())will be thinking of you both!
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