I think the most important thing is to always have witnesses when you are with your wife. She is obviously not above lying to get you in trouble. You must completely control your temper, and never so much as touch her. She is a volcano set to explode. Do what you said you would do, tell the boss' wife.
Odd that she thinks you will break up the boss' marriage with your actions, and not your wife and the boss with their actions. But regardless, you are probably right, boss is done with her on more than one level as soon as the wife finds out. Your wife will likely be looking for work.
You will need a big umbrella for a couple of days. The chitt is really going to fly!
