So I continue to calling and I call her best girlfriend (the divorced one she's getting all of her encouragement from) and tell her that "I now know all about W affair, Just wanted to let you know I'm in the loop" She talks for about 2 min then says she has to go. Of course shes now racing to call W.
GF calls back and begins to YELL AT ME because "how dare you bring W's OM wife into this,,why drag her in and wreck her life? Can't you just leave them alone...? They are happy, why involve his wife, why involve his kids, why break up his family"! WTF!
OK one more time WTF!!!!!!!
Where is the logic in that?!?! So, I'm getting lectured to not bring his W into this, because it might hurt OM marriage,,, I'll never understand the "logic" of the FOG...
AND it get better,,, I'm home alone now, W dropping/picking up kids.. then a knock on the door.... One guess.. the police!
Apparantly, W goes to the police station and tells them that she and I had an argument and she's not comming home tonight because she's afraid.... I tell the police, I discovered my W affair and she became p!ssed that I'm on to her now and got all mad and left. The tell me W claims I tried to prevent her from leaving etc.... (Kids were in the car with her so I have witnesses)
They tell me she is going to return to the home in the am and they were just telling me this as a courtesy, in case she and the kids didnt return and I got worried and called the police.. They were cordial and professional, and I was calm and explained my side... they said no report was filed,, this was just a "courtesy notification" so I knew the kids were safe..
I know she is Sh!tting a brick right now and contacting the OM and they are figuring out how they are going to deal with the OM w getting notified,,, how to spin this for the OM wife.. My guess is OM will drop W like a rock... Too bad for her, I'm done, I really think I'm out of second (third,fourth) chances,,
I'm just absolutely dumbfounded by all of this....W is making excuses and denying any responsibility, telling me I'm the bad guy in all of this... I'm so sad but relieved that I now know what I knew all along... I hate being right in this situation,,,
By the way, Father in law told me everything I've done so far is good,, expose everything,, he says, "she needs to be outed and hit rock bottom before she realizes she needs help, she has no idea of what shes doing...".
OK folks, my mind is racing in 10 different directions at 100mph.. What is my best way to handle this situation.. Any suggestions on what to do now..?
