D has thrown a fit since Wed when I put my foot down about the detentions and she has gone out of her way to be cruel,even told me i was pathetic,so pathetic i don't have a wife. I ignored that, but this was suppose to be my wkend with her, but see i grounded her and i knew she and wife would get in way.
I texted wife have her ready,texted d be ready of course no help from wife.Get there have to go in house because d won't come out.she threatened ect. told her one more threat, will turn off her phone,she did the typical teen act, so i shut off her phone.she went ballastic, well wife didn't help out.said to wife with a smile, this could get ugly, you might want to leave, but if i have to put my foot up her butt and put her over my shoulder she is leaving with me,we are not going to have a kid end up in fostercare or pregnant,drug addict, all the stuff,you know the story.wife goes if it gets ugly she's going to call the po po, that's a quote!!!!
Anyway then the two of 'em use what I've told them and take it as their own, another story.But still got no D getting in the car.
So i say to myself F it. so i sit down on my couch in the house and say, suppose to have wkend with both kids,one won't go and i can call the police have the court order followed thru or stay here, wife laughed said keep me out of it, said trying to but you are not standing up for yourself or i letting her talk this way and one benefit of all this is, see you can still be her best friend,I'm going to be her parent.
Wife went ballastic, I mean she jumped up, put her finger in my face called me a cntrling mf'er then she flipping hit me, in front of my daughter!
and she didn't stop at one, she got in my face and shoved me all the way outside and to my car.it's 3 hrs later and my chest still stings where she got me good.
All time low, man, i felt low, should have seen D's face.
I loaded up son...took son to duplex, went to police substation and filed a report, no i didn't press charges, but she crossed the line.
i texted her,you put your hands on me, new all time low,turning my back on you.
and i'm serious, too. she hit me and bullied me in front of my kids and i had to take it.
i feel a lot better about the motion i filed, therapy for the kids, anger mngt for her so we can at least have open communication for the kids.
reduce my childsupport, 'cause I'm not making what I was, not even close.
And this one is going to set her off, but she can't afford the house and I'm not bailing her out anymore and she's boasting to everyone, her house, even said that as she hit me, it's my house get the f out.
atty filed a motion to sell the house, i don't want it sold,told the atty i don't want it sold, i know what atty is doing, atty trying to swap my retirement for the house. told her the otherday,trying to figure out a way for her to keep the house and she said she would take me for everything i had to keep the house.
well, see i'm sane she's not and no. and that's not vindictive, she thinks i've got all this money, what she doesn't realize is she spent it, i have $400 in an acct that had a whole bunch, but she spent the money.My retirement is less than the equity of the house, she's going to owe me money, but she doesn't realize it.
those last two paragraphs ramble a bit, but i'm ticked, i got no D, her phone is back on, she's not grounded like she was going to be, we're not skiing like i planned on taking them, i've been punched in front of my kids and of course like a bully she had an audience, the entire neighborhood, she made sure she made enough noise to attract attention, then i get a copy of the motion from the atty where atty is going for the sale of the house, i did not agree or even mention that the other day to atty, so i know wife is going to flip on that, because i did.
I think I should talk to kids about the house thing, otherwise I think wife could turn this and spin it good.
What do you think, tell the kids, not going after the house?It's part of the business part of a divorce so mom and i can negotiate a settlement?
that part of the motion, flat busted my word and i feel like atty ran me over like a bus, my atty also knew i needed to go out of town on a certain date and set the hearing up on the date i was suppose to go out of town, so not only am i not listening to you, no one will listen to me.
