Where in the world did that come from !!!

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Geez I'm glad I found this place. When I went thru in my head the exposing to parents scenarios, they all made perfect sense.

Sandi as soon as I read your 1 liner I realized what a dumb thing that would be to do. Of course it wouldn't make any difference to WAW or her parents, just alienate me more.

Thanks for that, gotta get my head on straight I think and keep running my "ideas" thru the DB filter.

Anyway to Tennis. We all played AND WON yay. I said only polite Thank You's to WAW when she retrieved a wayward ball for me, nothing more (my boundary included that we wouldn't be her friends while A was continuing).

S16 said that at arvo tea, when I got up to take my coffee cup to sink WAW just watched me all the way and had a really guilty look on her face.

As soon as we had finished our last set me and the kids jumped straight in the car and headed off home. Sandi, RAW and hurtful as today was I think I managed to do a decent job of sticking to my boundary. I can't wait till she sees the other boundary consequence, that I've got rid of all her stuff from the house.

I know she'll end up at OM's tonite, but I figure she's betrayed our wedding vows once, more than that isn't "much" worse in the overall scheme of things.

Kids and I are having a nice roast chicken for tea tonite, W & OM can have whatever the he11 they want.

I took the moral high ground.