#2: WAH separated from us & I'm on the DBing path

[flowmom]

Thanks for the support y'all. It was really hard to hear that. It's true that there could be a lot of positives that come from this, but somehow it was still really shocking to hear it come out of the doctor's mouth.

It was also hard telling H tonight. I felt so sad that we couldn't have a hug and be there for one another. Although we are trying to collaborate on a practical level as coparents, it reinforced the loneliness of not having the other parent there to share the joys and tears of the experience. H did acknowledge the work that I had put into dealing with S's issues, but he kept his distance and didn't show much vulnerability (as usual).