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UPDATE:

OK HERE WE GO AGAIN...

Received credible evidence that my W is in an affair... Went to my Lawyer to tell him to look into getting a PI to get data.

I got home but couldn't handle the stress of the info so I talked with the wife and confronted her... just like the stories on this site, I began by asking her to tell me about her affair with her boss,,, she replied, "why do you think that?" I put my hand up and stopped her, saying, "look, we both know whats been going on, Don't disrespect me by lying to me"

She replies she does not know what I'm talking about, I put my hand up again and repeat the same that we both know the truth and that she needs to stop lying....

I then change up and demand,, "have the kids ever been with you and him?" She replies "no".. I ask if he has ever been in MY house with or without the kids, she replies, "no"

She again began to back peddle and ask, "what kind of info do you think you have?" I again held up my hand and told her not to do this as we BOTH know what is going on...

After a few more back and forth exchanges, She tells me to go outside and talk.. We go out and I ask again how long has the affair been going on. She tells me since the SUMMER!!..

I Tell her I know about her involvement and want to know if she was planning on telling me. She said he is a hot looking guy, with a great personality, great job and he is her confidant...that it is only an infatuation and is not a physical affair, they have never had sex or even kissed...!

So I tell her, are you going to continue to see him and she says yes, we are getting divorced so she can do what she wants,, I remind her that we were in counseling to try and work on things and she tells me that she just was doing it to get me to agree to a divorce.

I find out he is married and has kids.... I tell her ok, well you have 24 hours for him to tell his wife and get this in the open,,, You, I and he knows,,, his wife should be informed as well..

She IMMEDIATELY say,"ok, I'll break it off!" I tell her no as I have no proof.. she say she will not see him until after our divorce, again I say "no,, either he tells her or there will be consequences..."

Now she goes into bat sh!t crazy mode accusing me of all sorts things, She's p!ssed... telling me all sorts of things I've done. etc,etc...total denial and blame shift mode...

My S16 comes down and hears us talking and I approach my son and go into his room to talk,, I explain to him that mom and dad are still getting D but things have changed a bit, I believe he is old enough to know the truth and I tell him that M wants a D because she is in a relationship with another man, her boss at work, he is married and has kids also.. I wish this wasn't so and I've tried to make things work, but M wants to live her life with another man.. I want you to know that the Marriage didn't just dissolve there was another person involved...

He says, "I know, mom told me they were just friends". I reply, "No, S, thats not the truth" I have information that proves otherwise... he is looking at me like a 1000 yard stare,,, I hug him and tell him that I still love him and I always will, But I felt that he had to know the truth about the situation....

W leaves with kids to pick up kids friends. I now begin exposing the affair,, I call her parents first and tell them what I have just found out.

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