i agree with you, it's highly disruptive... i think it only makes my daugher sad when she sees me for a few min. the rare occasion i have to drop by to give my son something he forgot. I'd just ask her to stop if i were you, it's your day, but know what's best... or maybe you can leave a little earlier/later, he he.
My prayers your way! merging sucks, that's what happen in my company too.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.