I'm looking for some guidance from others that have been in this situation. WAW started having an EA with OM and then we separated (her choice). She moved in with OM.
After applying DB principles things were starting to look better. However, she recently informed me she is now expecting. She has also informed me that she 'made a mistake' and wants to work on our marriage. Now I'm the one who is backpedaling. I don't know if I can handle having another child in my home that isn't mine.
I know I'm not the first person to be in this situation. Any advice????
My 'stats' ME: 39 W: 36 D 5 D 2 SEP 9/09 Married 7 years