In love feelings may feel stronger but attachment is much deeper and stronger.
So this explains why I am also still attached to HIM! I thought I remember Helen Fisher saying that our "in love" chemicals go away after 2-4 years because evolution wise, men stayed with women 4 years; until the kids could start to "take care of themselves." Then the men would leave to go impregnate another woman and "spread their seed (DNA)" LOL!
I think men have come along way since then! :-)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004