and actually I think a normal amount of contact asking how baby is, would be at the most, once a day, or at the least, maybe twice a week...but it's so hard to say because when there is a divorce, I think the other parent has a right to contact and check up, but what is a normal amount?? and then there are all the other circumstances.
when my H lived with his mom in another state and we had a baby son, until he was almost 4, he hardly EVER talked to him. he always just asked me, how's S doing?" He only saw him twice a month on the weekends. and my H is not a messed up person, but he's your typical "guy". So, I don't think your exH doesn't care about her, he just doesn't know HOW to care about her.
I'm curious, what is your "perfect" scenario, if you guys are still D, how much contact would you think is right for him to initiate? If he wasn't bringing tons of drama in your life, that is.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
