beginning to see the real W

[oldtimer]

Oh, and much more importantly, good luck with the job test, though I don't think you'll need it!

[addie]

I agree. Trying to Piece a M is much more difficult when you have employment related stresses to deal with.

It's great that both you and W received positive news today. The best of luck to both of you.

[Dr LOve]

Thanks everyone (even you OT ) Maybe I should have said Stay married or ask her to leave..??
Anyway that is on the way back burner right now... Been refreshing up my memory on long Division... My son thinks it is great and wants to help me and challenge me.
Wife has spent most of the day in her office studying for her interview. Today did go by fast.
It sure makes a difference when you have some kind of direction to head.
OT don't worry I have all of the old posts you have sent me and I do read them. I really do think that when the job sitch gets better things will be changing.
I think it is kind of like the movie when the guy and gal don’t get along and the disaster happens you know the boat sinks and they are trapped on a deserted Island. And they kind of work together to make it and when the ship comes to save them they finely kiss….

[Tomato]

thinking of you Doc.

wishing and praying for successes for U.

Ted

[Dr LOve]

Thanks

Well started out the day studying then SIL called and her mail box post fell over so I needed to go fix that. Then back to studying...
Wife has done much of the same... Well not fixing mail boxes but studying and she did our taxes. Looks like we are going to get a big chunk back.
I had a minor mental set back today. At dinner W was reading the paper and read about a local restaurant owner died. She said "wow he was only 61"
I know OT and Saffie I need to let go but hey what is a guy to do? You can’t stop things popping into your head the first thing that popped into my head was "same age as your OM" second thing was."I am 52 and I hope I don’t die living like I am now”
But the thoughts passed. I just want to get through this job process so I can make some decisions on how I want to spend the rest of my life.
I am feeling better about the upcoming exam…
Ok back to studying… (And dreaming about stud n)

Later

[Kalni]

Doc,
do you have an email at the alt? I want to send you something about affairs. By the authour of PM. It's really good.
I've answered you on my thread.
K

[Dr LOve]

Thanks Kalni,

I read your reply and I have started reading PM again. Not allot though because I am studying for my exam next Thursday.
As I said in your post W has been studying for her job interview also so my R and M has been put on hold for now.
I had a real bad day yesterday mentally wise. Had one of those days that you just feel all used up and wonder if you really do still love your spouse anymore. I am finding it harder and harder to get that mojo back.
I had to pick up son from school Thursday and he said something that has really got me thinking. We were just talking and I said jokingly...”boy I know If I married your principle you would have it really easy in school" he said "No I want you and mom to stay together”
I do not know if I am reading more into this than I should but I would think he would have answered something like...”Ya that would be cool” or “no way that would suck” knowing I was just joking.
We have never said anything about splitting up to him. And we never “fight” around him. Heck we never fight…
Not sure if I should say anything to W about what he said. (After her interview of course)

Well got ta go and study some more... Saffie I hope you are feeling better. If you happen to read this can you e-mail me the address of the “other side” I lost it.
If not if you have Kalni’s e-mail you can give her mine

Thanks everyone... even though I have not posted allot lately I am still around
Doc
Now nothing seems as strange as when the leaves began to change
Or how we thought those days would never end
Sometimes I'll hear that song and I'll start to sing along
And think man I'd love to see that girl again
And we were trying different things
We were smoking funny things
Making love out by the lake to our favorite song
Sipping whiskey out the bottle, not thinking 'bout tomorrow
Singing Sweet home Alabama all summer long

By KID ROCK

[Kalni]

Sara sent me your email Doc. Now if I can trace those mp3s among the hundred relevant files I have stored in different folders, I would be sending you those.

Sorry you had a bad day. Seriously, this is supposed to be THE YEAR for us. The best of the last 12 and the best of the next 12. I read we get one of these years when nothing can go wrong, max 7 times in our lives... So, you will probably get the job and your M will come out of this stronger than ever...
Good Luck
K

[Dr LOve]

Thanks Kalni,
I will be waiting...Well today W was granted a second phone interview. I tried a few times to offer her any help over the weekend. (Practice questions and such) but she seemed to get irritated with me. I know she is nervous so for the rest of the weekend I just let her talk to me about it and just acknowledged what SHE was saying without really giving her any feedback.
I am finding out that sometimes when someone comes to me for help they really don't want ME to fix things...they just want me to be there...........

Think about me around 1:00 California time...W will be on the phone...

Doc

[Dr LOve]

Wife PASSED her phone interview next stop for her is a Real one