Back here, for the second time... #69

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((((Kalni))))

Your last few posts have been so very intense and insightful. When I read about what happened at your MC session it affected me deeply because I am living your pain. I can picture the same thing happening in my sitch - my H becoming defensive, resisting, a similar outcome. I've had similar talks with my H as you had a couple of nights ago and, like your H, he's taken little action to address my needs, has become defensive, dismissive, "feels controlled", and behaves as if nothing has happened.
Be strong and don't forget to soothe yourself throughout all of this.