Thanks Whatnow...I know A of S is not a DB technique but it is my "something different" for now. And I do know I have room to grow! You are right...I will get to the point when I am ready for NC. I'm still proud of myself for staying away more than I was.
You know, my therapist back in the spring suggested I try to compete with OW! At the time I was 7 months pregnant so we both knew that was out of the question then. But now it seems like that is what I'm doing!At least using the silly seduction techniques in addition to the domestic duties makes it more fun!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004