Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[WhatNow]

newmama...You are doing a great job. Of course he is disrespecting you! He is having an affair! But you see the bigger picture. You are making the marriage an attractive place to be, and he will reach a point where he won't be able to come up with any more justifications.

Meanwhile you are maintaining your dignity, growing, and finding fulfillment away from him. These are all good things. You are watching carefully the effect of your actions, and will reach a point when NC will be the obvious next step. When you get there, you will know and we will help you figure out how to do that. I don't think you are there yet.

I find your DBing inspiring.