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Re: Life
K4D #1926714 01/29/10 10:21 PM
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Rough week for people. My BIL's aunt whom he was close to also passed away earlier this week.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
Re: Life
K4D #1926716 01/29/10 10:23 PM
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Thanks, Kevin. Sorry to hear of your loss.

Our lives really aren't aren't that bad.
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Super Girl #1926718 01/29/10 10:25 PM
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Thanks, Kevin. Sorry to hear of your loss.

Our lives really aren't aren't that bad.


No, they aren't. Just have stressful moments at times and some uncertainty.

But I agree with you.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
Re: Life
K4D #1926720 01/29/10 10:31 PM
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Actually those aren't goals. It's a "to do" list.

Goals are life-changing and a bit more far reaching.

Good luck in your job search.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
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MrBond #1926727 01/29/10 10:41 PM
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Actually those aren't goals. It's a "to do" list.


UGGGG!!!!!

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
Re: Life
K4D #1926733 01/29/10 10:49 PM
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Fine, my goal this week is to detach detach detach detach detach by not seeing my W on IM on my phone anymore since she has now been deleted. On top of that, I hope to accomplish my TO DO list that I posted on page 36 of this thread.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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K4D #1926736 01/29/10 10:55 PM
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Heading out the door and into a new world of uncharted territory.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
Re: Life
K4D #1926737 01/29/10 10:56 PM
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Good luck.

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
Re: Life
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Originally Posted By: Super Girl
Check wonderhowto.com

WOW! There is instruction there on how to replace a roof. Maybe I will just start by watching the simpler one for removing moss.

Kevin -

Stuck is correct - those are todo's (aka objectives). They are not goals.

GOAL
The purpose toward which an endeavor is directed...
  • Broad plan
  • Based on ideas
  • Intangible
  • Generic action
  • Cannot be measured
  • Long term time frame
  • Cant be validated


OBJECTIVE
Something that one's efforts or actions are intended to attain or accomplish; purpose; target
  • Narrow plan
  • Based on fact
  • Tangible
  • Specific action
  • Can be measured
  • Short term time frame
  • Can be validated


Your goal should be to achieve self actualization with detachment.
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smith18 #1926743 01/29/10 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted By: Super Girl
Check wonderhowto.com

WOW! There is instruction there on how to replace a roof. Maybe I will just start by watching the simpler one for removing moss.



I just spent the last 30 minutes browsing that website. Its great! It should come with the divorce papers so people can figure out things they now have to do!

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
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