I feel your pain across a continent on the selling of your home. Tough one. It is inevitable that your kids and yourself (to hell with you STBXW) had to go through a change. I can only hope that the sale will go through quickly like pulling a bandage off a wound. Look on the bright side - you wont be around and have to put up with the toxic person that your former spouse is now.
December 12, 2007 - the day you filed - just a couple weeks before I prepared my own filing. It has now been over 2 years for you on this legal travesty. What is the court timeline?
I hope that soon enough you will be at a point where you can find love and companionship with a good woman and have your eyes gaze below that imaginary line.
