-8F here as well...did I mention that I hate winter. I wanted to go skating with NGF, D9 and her kids this weekend but i think I will take a raincheck. Instead I have invited the clan for Pizza and Pictionary night....not sure if her kids are up to it but I am making an effort.
The sensitivity thing .... well i was going to tell her to shove it up he a$$ as a joke but that would not have been very nice... waht surprised me about the whole thing was that she thought that I would ask D9 for it...just plain weird. I have not thought about the ring's whereabouts nor did I care.
As far as a spark etc, is concerned. I guess when you are accustomed to a certain type of person, you notice the difference. I like to think that I ma pretty down to earth and apart from the occasional hot blooded over reaction which i guess is hereditary, I do not get too high or tooo low. Well NGF is worse than me.....compare that to what I am used to.... But NGF has qualities that XW will never ever have...so there is no perfect scenario....we all have our faults and our good ponts. I guess it depends on what traits you find the most important.....NGF is selfless and always puts others before her XW...well.....never mind.....