Thanks for responding. Yes, I have been seeing a therapist - he is also our MC so he knows my H and the sitch. I agree with the part of being wrapped up - but I am the kind of person who can be wrapped up in a relationship and maintain my own life. It is actually how I function best - but most men don't appreciate it.
One of the problems right now is that my life revolved around my kids and they have left the nest - so it is feeling more empty than usual.
My plan had been to enjoy my time alone with H after the kids left. But now there is no H. But I have a pretty full life and many hobbies, interests etc. I am not make to be single. I do best married.
