Hi Aver, Just checking in on you today. I replied to you yesterday but on my post. Any hoo, you sound better today. I like the "real life" meeting idea.
You just got another blindsiding from BF, and those are pretty nasty. I think you're going uphill from here. You ARE a strong independent woman & you are going to be awesome! Fabulous!! Awesomely Fabulous!! You will figure it out, just not all at once.