LFA said a few posts back "you did not break him and you cannot fix him". That resonated and helped me not blame myself so much.
H, I'm so glad something I said helped you! But, just to clarify, I "borrowed" that line from another post. It was from an old post by Mermaid to Lost41. Just want to give credit where it's due. BTW, it helped me too. ((((hugs)))) H, & go rock Vegas!!!