Possible.

He doesn't usually have much of a sense of humor about the situation. I joke about it sometimes, and then he gets a bit snippy about it and calls it backhanded. So I'm definitely not used to him joking or even referring to the situation between us.

He seems more adamant sometimes that there are no OW. (Ex: He is going to start training for a triathlon. Swimming part is in a lake that is thought of as a bit gross. He says something about getting "trout mouth". I say he'll get that from hanging out at such-and-such bar. He says he just goes there to drink beer and play Big Buck Hunter.)


Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011