RSF, Just remember.. You hurt her too so there's alot to repair. NOW she might be ready... give her the chance to before you give up again.
Very very true. I hurt her a LOT! Unfortunately she hasn't been ready and I have waited and waited. I waited while she began and ended a relationship and I have been waiting for several months after. She has been so careful to not create any false hopes or expectations to the extent she has not given even once inch of hope. Makes it really hard to find some hope to hang on to. I think all of the waiting has made it hard for me to see the hope that might be right in front of me.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09