Having a pretty tuff day. This EA is breaking my heart. I'm trying my best to do the 180, no contact/calls/email, etc, but I feel that OM is getting a foothold and that is not good. He is married but having marriage problems and that worries me. It seems there's nothing I can do about it....I feel helpless.

How far do I go in doing the 180/last resort? Do I completely cut myself off from her? We work for the same company and in the same building, but on different floors. Some days I see her...some days I don't. All this is totally unnatural for me. She is still pretty "cold" toward me. But she continues to keep the emails, conversations going with OM. Even though it looks somewhat innocent this EA worries me a great deal. She calls him a "very good friend" whom she "trusts". He's "funny". She seems to really enjoy her time with him.

Well....excuse my ramblings. Any input is appreciated.