What the heck is wrong with me. I need help. I am crazy right now. I know my wife had lunch with a friend and i still got crazy because she is happy and i dont know why. I am crazy crazy worried about OM. I just drove by her work as a spy. Plus, i broke the rule and called her twice...(of coarse i found a reason to call her. She sent me to voice mail twice...so she must have been on the phone but with who.....sigh....maybe im crazy)
We are getting along good. Having good talks....and i am friggen making rookie mistakes....I need help to refocus...DISTANCE.
You know, it's funny, but every time I get into one of our frequent "Snooping is bad!" debates around here (I am very pro-intel, as you all know), one of the arguments that the anti-snooping crowd always give is, basically, "It'll make you nuts!"
I contend just the opposite. Us humans are wired to fear -- to "go nuts" -- over the UNKNOWN, not the KNOWN.
Ronald Reagan said, of the Soviets, "Trust -- but verify." it is in that verification that we can either find STRENGTH AND PEACE OF MIND (if nothing is going on), or KNOWLEDGE AND DISCERNMENT about the right course of action (if something is).
For the life of me, I can't see anything wrong with that.
MY MARRIAGE IS BACK ON TRACK!!! She started saying she loved me and we had a amazing weekend of love making. I know there is still alot to do. However, its great right now!!!!
M:33 W:32 Married 10/28/07 C: B13 G10 (Both from different relationships) 12/30/09 Bomb Divorce Busted 2/04/10 5/15/12 Bomb 2
Thanks, i know. I am going to keep on my system. I'll try not too lose focus. However, its good to be here. I was thinking of starting the love dare. I have heard goods things and i know its pursuing. I think that may help, its 40 days and will keep me focused on the bigger goal not just living in the moment.
M:33 W:32 Married 10/28/07 C: B13 G10 (Both from different relationships) 12/30/09 Bomb Divorce Busted 2/04/10 5/15/12 Bomb 2
def wait and see- be careful of the lulls. Stay consistant and GAL your butt off. PMA etc,etc. Be wary of reacting if you find something when snooping- try to sit on it and get advice from someone here first. Lots of backslides if you do otherwise.
MY MARRIAGE IS BACK ON TRACK!!! She started saying she loved me and we had a amazing weekend of love making. I know there is still alot to do. However, its great right now!!!!
You had sex and now everything is suddenly okay?
Eaaaaaaasssyyyy there, big fellah. Nice and sloowwww.....
MY MARRIAGE IS BACK ON TRACK!!! She started saying she loved me and we had a amazing weekend of love making. I know there is still alot to do. However, its great right now!!!!
