Thank you everyone for all the advice. When we first separated, we did go to 2 MC sessions. In the 2nd session is where he told me he was done. I'm still going, and he knows that.
I think my best bet for now, is to continue to expose the A and to go dark. As far as making him jealous, I've already done a little of that, not on purpose. Just with me going out with friends (all girls) and GAL the last couple of weeks have him asking me where I'm at and with whom. I've seen signs, of him wondering what I'm doing.
I checked his phone records this morning. And since the night I exposed the A to him, there has been less phone contact with him and OW. I honestly belief, he is waiting to see what she will do and as everyone has said, I'm plan B. But with me knowing that, it gives me the power to NOT be plan B. If I'm not plan A, then I don't want him back.
Last edited by mb28; 01/29/1008:08 PM.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
