I am praying for your W to say yes and go, I hope she doesn't back out. You could always tell her that, "I know your mind is made up but if the only thing that comes out of Retro is better communication after D then so be it, but I am hoping to save our M or at least work on it".
That was the exact conversation I had with my W last week. Face it we have three children together so we will be in some kind of relationship for the next 40 years.
My only concern with Retro is I'm not sure if she is ready. If she is measuring everything against her perception of reality Retro may loose its effect. Guess that's getting the cart before the donkey.
Thanks for the Prayers.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09
