IF something stings...you NEED to examine it, usually because there is truth in it.
J3B, Spent yesterday in archives and I wanted to ask something off BB in the koobecaf realm, it was pretty old and I did not see any need to bring it back up here.
Sorry for the Hi-jack C-bart.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
Yes, on the alt realm, and don't mind posting on your thread I was considering moving to MLC from separated as is C-bart. I already sent a message in the other realm, pic is the e-trade baby, right?
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
I am praying for your W to say yes and go, I hope she doesn't back out. You could always tell her that, "I know your mind is made up but if the only thing that comes out of Retro is better communication after D then so be it, but I am hoping to save our M or at least work on it".
That was the exact conversation I had with my W last week. Face it we have three children together so we will be in some kind of relationship for the next 40 years.
My only concern with Retro is I'm not sure if she is ready. If she is measuring everything against her perception of reality Retro may loose its effect. Guess that's getting the cart before the donkey.
Thanks for the Prayers.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09
