Originally Posted By: newmama
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Any R talk. I will put a stop to it with one reply. Are you still commiting adultry. Yes. Then we have no relationship to talk about.


I am just wondering why you are choosing to ask the question like that instead of "Are you still seeing OM?" Just wanting to understand so I can learn if I ever am presented with reconciliation talk! Thanks!

goooood outfit by the way and very wise advice about planning everything out. I think of you when I set goals because you break your goals into small steps and follow through!!


Seeing symbolizes its a relationship not adultry. I will not cheapen any relationship with adultry.

Also why would I not say exactly what it is. It is adultry. When your married and do this it is called adultry. Nothing less.

What sounds true and what sounds like I am trying to shield guilt from her and give a subtle impression that I agree or support her faulty and poor decisions.

1. Are you still seeing douchebag ( I would use his name )
2. Are you still in a relationship with douchebag
3. Are you dating douchebag
4. Are you commiting adultry

If she says no I am not committing adultry any more.

I will reply oh so the affair is not more. You are not in contact with douchebag any more.

And if she says yes I am in contact then I reply so then yes you are still commiting adultry with a married man with children.

And if she says anything against that.

I raise my hand to the stop position and I say. "Stop it ladybug. Call it what you want , but I will call it what it is. It started while you were married. The legal term is Adultry."

Then I shut up and and look her in the eyes. And I stare at her until she looks away.

Adultry carries a moral association and most people disapprove of adultry.

Words have different meanings.


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