I will add that I put my ring back on Wednesday. I put it on for me----as a reminder that I am still married, and as I go through this process to remind me of the many years and tears that I have invested in my marriage. If nothing else, I will use it as a reminder to myself that I deserve anything that I legally have a right to----as a means to protect myself, my kids and my future. If/when the papers are signed I may have to replace it with another piece of pretty jewelry..................


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12