I would say Kerry wins the "Most obscure and amusing links" award on these boards!
John, I can see what you are saying re. NGF. If you are not an "UP" or go-go-go type and are used to you partner being that way, having so much peace can seem almost...too peaceful?!
I know for me I want the next one to be a genuine "good guy". BUT....I need a little fire, a little spark, I sm@rtass if you will who will challenge me with witty banter and some flirtatiousness. If I want mellow and comforting I will go adopt a lab from the pound... Granted the quick-witted charmer can also be a ladies man so there is probably no perfect scenario...
Enough about me....can't believe she wanted to send the ring with D9??
As Jennifer Aniston once said about Brad, "I think he is missing a sensitivity chip"...
So what type of getaway? Local or remote? Just had some friends talk about going to the Dominican Republic and it reminded me of you. -8*F today, I could use a sandy beach!