Oh hun been there on that one, my H was paying probably a large amount of rent else where, because he has his own business he was able to keep money aside from our joint account.. well eventually we had to get into a pickle and now were in one big time, he contracts and still has no work.. if I had gone and got myself a job when I did we would have no money at all at the moment.. When H was in the fog his attitude was what do you expect me to do about it.. Personally I be looking for renters el pronto and make sure that money goes into you account as a back up plan. Huge hugs because I really know how it feels to suddenly have little control over what you used to consider OUR money!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
