Sandi- if you're out there lurking, I'd like to know more about WAW's and the feelings, confusion, etc that they experience. . . . I'm wondering if she'll find any time to contemplate the R or allow her to experience some feelings.
Can you see what you're doing, Maynard? You say you're "detaching," and today begins it being about YOU (and I agree on both -- needs to happen), and yet you can't go TWO HOURS without trying to crawl back inside your wife's fogged-out skull???