Please get to the truth. It will be then that you make the correct plan on how to approach your dilemma.
I second this.
Too many red flags to not think he has another woman. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
