AND if you knew your husband SO well then how did you get into this mess?
You ARE wrong.. Denial isn't going to help you and getting mad at me for pointing out the truth is only going to make this take longer..
I have been doing this for over twenty years. You are certainly not the first or will be the last to deny when there is an obvious affair going on...
Here is what you said on your first post...
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It all blew up right before the holidays when I found out that he had been talking with another woman. He swears he never physically did anything
He is lying to you and you fell for the lie... Classic error on your part. I would bet it is still going on.. This doesn't look like someone who knows their husband as well as they think they do or you would have known this earlier.
Please get to the truth. It will be then that you make the correct plan on how to approach your dilemma. Stop being in denial. Women that stay in denial are actually enabling. Enabling does not reconcile a marriage. It actually slowly ruins one.
