I forgot no 3: I took my sibs to a day spa for a massage and called H from there to ask if he wanted to have one. He said 'not this week' so I booked us for a couples massage next Friday. I told H when he got home and he said 'I'll be at work but I can get out early so that we can go'
And he was wearing his ring when he came home
Well, ODGA said focus on the positives...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"