Honestly, based on my past way of "dealing" with issue through manipulation and pressure I can't say that I blame her. (Ouch that stung a bit)
From what I understand, this is the kind of communication that takes place at Retro and certainly you could probably share with her in a constructive way what it is/was about your W that you were less than happy with.
I am praying for your W to say yes and go, I hope she doesn't back out. You could always tell her that, "I know your mind is made up but if the only thing that comes out of Retro is better communication after D then so be it, but I am hoping to save our M or at least work on it".
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
