I am glad for you Bradley. I really am. This choice says something about you and the type of person you are...and really from my point of view, it one of...I feel vindicated. I suspected you were this man. : )
Let me be the cold wind in front of the storm on a nice day.
You wife will likely not be happy with this choice. RIGHT NOW.
However, down the road, this action on your part will show her what is important in your life and when you reconcile...to whatever you both reconcile too being, this move will be a big part of it. She will, in time appreciate your sacrifice.
She may never tell you this. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK