I posted this in your other thread.... Think you could pull this one off. If you want to take control of your stitch. Think about this.
Originally Posted By: cutterbug
He is getting his ego stroked.
Instead of being busy and tiptoing around the next time he comes over.
Make it no next time.
You want to get through to him. He is a Male. He is wired like a Male.
You tell him that you need the kids taken care of on the weekend of Feb 12th. It would be best for Friday night and Saturday and Saturday night. You will get the kids on the weekend.
He asks what your doing. You say. I am going away for 2 days with a friend to dicuss my marriage , i have a few things I need to get off my chest. Enjoy your weekend with the kids.
You pack your over night bags. And go away for 2 days.
And then when you get back. You pick up the kids. Act like your hung over and tired from being up all night. But have a little glow on you.
When he asks how your weekend went.
You say. I had a good weekend. Many ups and downs.
And walk away like your alittle sore. Maybe even have a little bruise on your arm or something that only he would notice as he is wired to notice.
Do that.
Then watch what happens.
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