Not sure if this qualifies as piecing or not...

[TrentC]

There are many ways to become parents.

I can't even wrap my mind around that right now. I've walled that off so I can keep from losing it completely.

It sure does sound like severe depression and I believe you are doing the right thing in seeking some advice from your IC. However, bear in mind that you really can only help a person if they want help. Be careful about pushing her too much.

I understand that; at the same time, I'm looking at the very real possibility that my marriage is over, regardless of what I do.

My biggest fear for her is that she will continue to succumb to depression, and maybe even try to harm herself. I would never have believed it, but the depth of pain and misery she showed me makes me think anything is possible for her. She has no real hope for her future right now.

I'm not convinced enough that I am willing to call emergency services right now, but I will be keeping a close eye on her for the next few days. If she will let me.