Waiting is good especially if your initial reaction is anger or frustration, but eventually the goal of any good relationship is to be able to share your feelings without fear of what they are going to do or say.

I feel that I am ready to start communicating with my W who has been out of the house since Sept. 09 and it has been 4 weeks since the last "incident" between us. Retroville is supposed to open those lines of communication.

C-Bart I know you were scheduled to go in Feb. , what is the status? Is your W still on board?


Formerly "missherlove"

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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison