nikblondiew,
Thank you for your reply. I am having a hard time figuring out what he is getting from OW that he wasn't from me. I think, mostly for my H, it was someone to talk too. The last year I've been in school full-time, plus working full-time. And I haven't been very pleasant to be around during this time with the stress. I think I was taking it out on him. So whenever he was trying to talk to me about what was happening with him, I would ignore him, and think to myself, I don't have time for this. Now I'm not sure if I could convince him that I understand that now and how I understand that I was treating him poorly.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10