As a single mom that has been married most of the last 23 years I didn't know how to do many 'man' things. I have now learned how to mow the lawn, unplug a drain, keep the yard in decent shape etc. I didn't want to call my exh for anything even though he offered...Oh, and I plan on caulking that window this weekend! smile I did call my first exh last weekend when it was flooding though as that is sort of his specialty anyway.

I get it. Asking your W is sort of a connection to her in a small way. It is most likely one of the things she used to do as a real W. But she doesn't want to be a W anymore.

So if I can learn to do 'man' things you can learn to do 'woman' things! LOL smile

Last edited by Startingover2; 01/29/10 04:42 PM.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!