I'm with you ladies - H and I had a talk last night. He got the "misunderstanding" logically, but I don't think he really empathized with my feelings. I'm with you - one day at a time and eventually perhaps they can empathize ....
And by the way, LR, congrats on day 2. Good job avoiding the lonely feeling. Although it may never completely go away, it's good to have your darling companion back.