C-Bart, one important rule that can help a lot in dealing with an MLCer (well, anybody really) is rather than react to something, give it 24-48 hours and then if you need to say something at least you will hopefully be much calmer and not reacting out of anger/frustration. So if your W says something crazy MLC try not to respond off the cuff.
I have found so many, many times that when I have waited, I find later that I really didn't need to respond in any way which has probably saved a lot of added heartache and harsh words.
