It's the end of the world as we know it, & I feel-

[kat727]

You will get there when you are ready but Dan won't "feel" it until you set the boundaries that divorce creates. Perhaps being cut off will shake the man...that I know is probably wishful thinking but since I am only 3 hours away I could drive up and help you if you want!

It takes a while to cut off the emotions. I was at this for nearly two years before I found these boards and it still took me at least another 6 months after that. I do have slips now and then when something will get me and I cry for a few minutes and then move on.

kat