I am not focusing on it. I just felt that I needed to address 25's comments because they were off base.

I am focusing on finding a new job and on my girls. I did remove W from my IM on my phone. So I no longer see her status.

I did go to W's last night to help out with D8's experiment. It was raining very hard. W said since she waited til the last minute to do this can I help out after I got there. I said sure, what do you need help with. She asked if she recorded the results on a file, could I run out and have it printed at office depot. I'm sitting here thinking, it is pouring rain outside. Seriously? But I said ok to help D8 since it was due the next morning. I told W I am not sure office depot is open at this hour. W went to look at office depot and fedex office and found that she could do it in the morning on the way to taking the girls to school so she decided she would just do that. Very good.

W offered me a few food and drink items she was not going to use. I said ok, I will take them because I actually did like those items. I asked her if she had those light bulbs she wanted me to replace in her cealing for her that I had told her a while back I would do but kept forgetting. She said no but that she would pick them up today. She is making dinner for me and the girls to take home with us since her new job doesn't start until Monday. She still has her Christmas tree up. She mentioned her Christmas tree needs to get finished taking the lights off and then taken out of the house. I said I was going to ask her if she needed help getting it out of the house and gone. She said yes. I said I will help her with that then. She said thank you. I did end up earlier on a few weeks ago asking her if she knew how to sew buttons on a shirt to which she said yes and that she could show D12 how to do it and they would do it for me. I gave her my 2 shirts. So I asked about the status of that last night and she said she hadn't done it yet and she would do it today. I know I said I wasn't going to ask, but I ended up asking.

So tonight I will replace the lightbulbs in her cealing and help her get the tree out of her house. Tomorrow we will be taking both of our daughters to the eye doctor to get glasses. We will split the cost on that.

As I was leaving, W handed me a picture frame of pictures of me and my family and asked if I wanted it. I looked at it and said no thanks. Keep it. W then said D8 has been putting up pictures every where as I was walking out the door. I said ya, she loves our family. W said ya. I then headed out into the rain and got in my car and drove off.

Oh, I did help D8 with her experiment and that went well for her. I look forward to hearing about how it went this morning for her at school.

I probably will send her a text Monday morning wishing her well on her first day at the new job. It is a polite cordial thing to do.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...