Gosh, newmama, I thought I read a while back they you had a New Years deadline for filing yourself- did I read wrong, did you change your mind?

Personally, I think he is normalizing- he is perfectly content. I mean I think this is what he wanted all along, right? The OW and then for you to be "friends" with him- no discomfort or conflict. Why would he change anything. I think he may not file for D just so the status quo does not change in anyway. He has it too good at the moment. Deep down, I think he knows you still want him.

IMO

Are you trying to wait out the OW and see if she gives up?

Last edited by june72; 01/29/10 03:56 PM.
M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)